If you’re a regular reader or a real-life friend, you know
that a couple of months ago, one of my cats died. She was a sweet, friendly, affectionate cat who’d only
brought herself to start sitting on my lap about five or six months before her
death.
I buried the body at home, but I wanted to mark it in some
way for multiple reasons. Not only did I want to honor her memory, but I also
wanted to remember where I buried her, and, if I end up moving and someone else
buys the house, I’ll feel better knowing that they’ll know she’s here and, on a
more practical level, that they won’t accidentally dig up a dead cat some day.
At first I thought I might buy a pet memorial stone, but
they were all expensive, cheap, cheesy, and impersonal. I did some further
research and found this
blog post by a lady who made her own cat headstone out of quick set mortar
and I thought that project just about matched my haphazard DIY skill set, which, as it
turns out, it pretty much did.
The larger bucket is for mixing the mortar. I added an appropriate amount of mortar before I took the picture, because the bag of mortar lives in the garage. I used the time-honored method of eyeballing it to determine how much mortar I would need. I used
this same mortar once before to erect some trellises next to my front porch, so
I was familiar with it. The smaller bucket was for adding water to the mortar
mix, because that previous experience taught me that if I try to add water
directly from the spigot, I will add too much. The garden trowel was for
mixing the mortar, and the taping knife was for smoothing it in the mold; I chose an old shoe box for a mold. None of these were the proper tools, but I made
do with what I had.
I made sure to buy actual mortar rather than Portland cement, because a previous experience with Portland cement taught me that
it will give you chemical burns if you get it on your skin. Thanks to this same
experience I also learned that it will be okay if you wash it off quickly
enough, but I wasn’t in the mood to take chances. I also wore gloves, but I
recommend wearing an old pair of gloves because you will probably get mortar all
over them.
You should also really wear a face mask while working with
the mortar, but I didn’t because they make me feel like I’m being smothered
with a hot piece of raw meat. I tried really hard not to breathe in any of the
dust.
The first step was adding water to the dry mortar mix. I added too
much, so I had to go back down to the garage and add a few more trowels of
mortar to get it to the right consistency. It needed to be thick so the letter impressions would hold.
While not unbearably strenuous, mixing the mortar was the
hardest part. I had to keep scraping the bottom of the bucket to get at clumps
of dry mortar that weren’t mixing well. Once it was all mixed, I put it in the
mold, then used the trowel to spread it more-or-less evenly over the bottom of
the box.
Finally, I used my set of stone stamps to create the
inscription.
They don’t carry stone stamps at Michael’s, or at least they don’t in my town, so I ordered them on Amazon. After reading several reviews of different sets of stone stamps available, I splurged on a set that has little handles on them so you can more easily press the stamps into the mortar and pull them out. They were about $12, but I figure I’ll be using them again in the future the next time a pet dies.
They don’t carry stone stamps at Michael’s, or at least they don’t in my town, so I ordered them on Amazon. After reading several reviews of different sets of stone stamps available, I splurged on a set that has little handles on them so you can more easily press the stamps into the mortar and pull them out. They were about $12, but I figure I’ll be using them again in the future the next time a pet dies.
At this point, the mortar was starting to set and it became
increasingly difficult to press the letters into the surface as I went along. I
didn’t really plan the design in any way so it’s pretty crooked. Because the
stone stamps came all jumbled up in a bag, I had to spend more time than I
would have liked finding the letters I wanted, so I probably should have sorted
them out before I began mixing the mortar. I accidentally used an upside-down A instead of a V in “beloved,” but happily, the medium allowed for some mistakes;
I was able to refill that letter with a scrap of mortar scraped from the bottom
of the mixing bucket and smooth it back out with my finger. I also went a little
bit overboard with the inscription, deciding at the last minute to add onto it
at the bottom of the stone. All things considered, though, I’m happy with the results.